Sunday, June 14, 2015

Benjamin's 3!!

What a fun day celebrating our favorite little dude turning three today!
 
Here are some fun facts about our little Benny Boo Boo...
 
He loves anything BOY-ish...running, jumping, climbing, making noise, anything with wheels, super heroes, making messes, dinosaurs, etc.
He can't sleep without his special blankie with his name on it and his little brown puppy, "Puppy." I pray we never lose either one.
He would live on granola bars and fruit snacks if we let him.
He loves Paw Patrol. LOVES. Paw Patrol.
He hates going to bed and most nights doesn't make bedtime any fun for any of us.
He would rather be outside.
He gives the best hugs.
He tells me on an almost daily basis "you're the best mama ever!" Heart = melt.
He's particular and likes things just-so. If something's in his room at bedtime that isn't supposed to be there, it's gotta go. When we're I'm picking up and something doesn't get put away in the right place, he moves it. {Which just gave me an idea...maybe I should start putting things away in the wrong place on purpose to get him to help me pick up more. Hmm...}
He's a picky eater.
He loves going for walks and bike rides.
He can't wait to go to preschool at the Y in the Fall.
He still has very little interest in potty training...which is going to make going to preschool a little interesting. But, I'm not pushing. He knows how to go and he knows when he needs to go, he's just stubborn. It's gotta be on his terms.
He wants mama to do everything..."No, daddy! I want mama do it!"
He knows the lyrics to a lot of the songs that come on the radio and always sings along with me in the car. It's hilarious listening to him sing Maroon 5 and Meghan Trainor.
He has the cutest dimples, a laugh that is seriously contagious and the best smile.
He wears a 3T and weighs about 26lbs...I think.
He loves the water and loves our new boat.
He loves going to the Y and always asks if Miss Cathy and his friends will be there.
He wants to help me with everything...cooking, cleaning, laundry, weeding, watering. He's my little shadow...when he's not sneaking off to get into mischief.
He loves bugging his sissy and knows how to push her buttons just right.
He  loves playing with his sissy and her Barbies.
He talks about his cousins and Grandma and Papa in WA every day. He misses them a lot.
 
I could keep going but, you get the picture. He's a sweet little stinker that keeps me on my toes and has given me more gray hairs in his 3 short years than his sister has in her 7 1/2.
Even so...we seriously love this little guy.
The struggles we went through in the 4 years before he was born were the hardest years of my life. They were hard on my body, hard on my emotions, hard on my marriage. But, our little Ben was worth every bit of the pain and heartache. Seeing his sweet, smiling face is a reminder of everything we gained, despite our loss. We love him more than words and I will forever be grateful that I got to be his mama.
 
I'll leave you with a few pics of the birthday boy at his Paw Patrol birthday party today!
 









 

Friday, January 30, 2015

Christmas Tree Hunting


How fun is it to go out your own property and cut down a Christmas tree?!
It's the best!
We've always cut our own tree from a tree farm but this year we actually got to pick one straight from Matt's family property.
We packed an overnight bag and hit the road, driving about 2 hours North to Amberg, where we picked a tree, sipped hot cocoa, went out for a Friday night fish fry and enjoyed the snow and family time.
This is definitely a tradition that I'm looking forward to repeating next year!
 
Taylor took Grandma Nettie for a little walk thru the woods...

the kiddos with Grandpa Dave and Grandma Nettie
 
Don't let that sweet face fool you... ;) 

Posing...she's a natural. :)

We even managed to get our Christmas card picture while we were there!
 
This is definitely one of my favorite family photos. <3
 
Stay tuned...I'm going to try really hard to get caught up! XO
 

SEVEN!!

{I'm not sure what happened here but, this is obviously a very late post...one that I thought posted back in October! I'm posting it now anyway, even though it's long past-due.}
 

My baby girl is officially 7.
It's not like I didn't know it was coming, but it's kinda throwing me for a loop.
Why does she seem so much older than she did last week?
Why does 7 feel so much more grown-up than 6?
 
*sigh*
 
Although her birthday has given me a bit to ponder about the warp speed at which life seems to pass us by, we did have a fantastic weekend celebrating our sweet girl...starting with a big birthday surprise on Saturday morning!
 
 
She was so sure there was a Barbie house waiting for her downstairs, but has since stated that her Grandma and Papa was a much better surprise than any old Barbie house!
 
We spent Saturday catching up and getting ready for her party that evening...a pajama party with breakfast for dinner! It was a lot of fun with a group of girls more wild than I've ever seen {or had in my house} and she got some really great birthday gifts to top it off...her favorite being a rainbow loom that she's been wanting for-e-ver!

 
We had cinnamon roll birthday "cake" and a wonderful time was had by all!

 


 
 We spent the rest of the weekend and a few days after enjoying my parents' visit and let me tell you...it was wonderful having them here! After having them in our home for 4 days, it sure was hard to see them go, though...





Happiest of Birthdays, my sweet baby girl!
May your 7th year be better than the last and bring you all kinds of fun and adventure!

We love you!!!
XO

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

I've watched this so many times...





I can't tell you how much I love this song.

I've watched it over and over and over again.

It's pure beauty.

Enjoy.



And, Merry Christmas! :)

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Summa Summa Summatime!

Wow...is it really already the middle of August?? How did this happen?!
 
We've been in Wisconsin for a little less than 2 months now and we're all getting adjusted pretty well.
Taylor has become pretty good buddies with some of the kids in the neighborhood and she can usually be found outside playing with one, some or all of them.  She's officially enrolled as a first grader at Greenville Elementary School and is excited to get started and make even more new friends! After all, that's what school is all about, right...your friends?! {She is so much like me, it's scary sometimes!} She's too busy to want to do anything other than play, which means getting her to read or do any kind of "school work" this summer has been a challenge. I pray that she isn't behind when she starts the curriculum at her new school. She was always ahead of her class at home so I'm sure she'll be fine...but, I can't help but worry. Reading even 10 mins a day with her is a challenge, let alone the recommended 20. The problem is, I don't want to force her to read when she doesn't want to and then have reading turn into something she hates, rather than loves. I'm hoping once school starts and the days are shorter and we're inside more and have more of a routine that she will settle into a good reading habit. She's been pretty emotional and sensitive lately {another reason I haven't wanted to push her too much} and I think it's got a lot to do with her missing her family and friends back home. Skype and phone calls seem to help but I think she just feels a bit lonely sometimes...and I totally get it. So, as challenging as she's been this summer, I'm trying hard to remember that we're all fumbling through this transition and she's probably feeling all the same feelings I am, without being able to understand or verbalize them. I'm hoping school starting will give us all a good kick to get back to life as we used to know it.
Benjamin. He is the classic definition of both a two year old and a boy.
He's just one big, loud mess.
He cannot sit still. Hates to be contained or confined. Loves to find mischief wherever he can. And I literally cannot take my eyes off of him for more than a second for fear of what I will have to clean up if I do!
He is the exact opposite of his sister and sometimes I just laugh and shake my head, remembering the sweet, agreeable baby that she was, while I'm staring at the little savage in front of me.
He talks like a 4 year old...saying complete, 5-7 word sentences. He understands everything and has a vocabulary that exceeds normal for his age. You can ask him anything, tell him to do anything and he knows exactly what you're saying, and will do it.
His favorite things to do right now are feed Lambeau, ride his scooter {which he taught himself to do} and throw a ball...specifically his softball or football. He can swing a bat, throw and catch a football, and ride his scoot trike like nobody's business. We're thinking this boy will be our athlete!
Did I mention I love him dearly?
Matt is doing extremely well at work and I'm so proud of him! He's enjoying the company and his co-workers and I couldn't be happier for him...they really are a great group of people who have gone out of their way more times than I can count to make us feel welcome. Now, if they would just quit trying to convert me to the green & gold team I'd be happy...cuz that's not gonna happen!! ;)
He sold his beloved Harley Davidson since he doesn't have a lot of free time right now and he got tired of seeing it sitting in the garage, collecting dust, while he walked by it everyday. It wasn't as hard of a decision for him as I thought it would be, but he was a little sad to see her drive away. I think the new patio we're planning and finishing our bar downstairs will ease the pain a bit. ;)
I'm doing pretty ok, too. That probably doesn't sound too convincing but, really...I'm ok.
I miss my family and my friends like crazy and there are certainly days where I let myself get down about it but, for the most part, things are good.
I'm learning my way around town and can usually go without my GPS now, which is a relief!
We've found a few good parks and some fun places to play and we spend a  lot of time outside. I try to keep myself busy, which isn't hard with two kids and honestly, the days seem to be flying by! I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to summer ending. I love the sunshine and the long days but I'm also craving some sort of normalcy. I'm so, so thankful we didn't move here in the wintertime, but I'm also feeling a bit lost without the routine that school brings. I'm trying to get my home and family settled and it's a big task, and then throw in things like trying to find the best grocery store and figuring out where to pay the utility bill while trying to entertain 2 kids, one who's bored and one who can't sit still, and still get home for naptime...it can become a little challenging!
I'm really looking forward to a visit from one of my oldest and dearest friends at the end of September, and then in November our really good friends are coming to visit and go to a Packer game...seriously can't wait for that!! We're also planning on heading back to Washington for the holidays so that gives me something to look forward to, too...even if it is 4+ months away. :)
And last, but certainly not least, we found a new church that we all loved this past weekend! I literally blinked back tears while sitting there listening to Father Peter talk about stepping out of your comfort zone and letting God lead you to something amazing...something only He knows is in store for you.
I felt like he was talking directly to me.
And I heard a little voice in my head saying "maybe this is why we're here."
 
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Lunch date, complete with ice cream, of course!

Snuggling and singing lullabies to his baby at bedtime. <3

Loving on our pooch...he likes the new house, too!

Having some fun at Bay Beach...although she liked the big, wooden roller coaster much better than the "baby rides!" ;)

Visited the Packers training camp and the new Pro Shop at Lambeau Field...pretty cool!


A tradition in Green Bay...the players come out of the stadium, pick a kid and their bike, and ride across the street to the practice facility while the kid tags along, carrying the helmet and chatting with them about Packer football. So cool!!!

Taylor was hoping to see Aaron Rodgers but he didn't make an appearance. We did see AJ Hawk, though...he's a beast!

Ben eating his first ice cream cone...
...and getting dressed up like a little sister. :)

And here's the little stinker in action..."I washa my feet, mommy!"

My pretty girl at the Brewer's game. :)


 And even being at the Brewer's game made me miss home! ;)
 

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

We made it!

We're here!
We're home!
Wait...home??
Yep.
Home.
 
Where my family is...my little 4 person family, that is.
Where we love our new house...it really does feel like home.
Where I'm starting to learn my way around...but still like to drive the car with navigation.
Where our kids have made new friends...so many little girls {and a few boys} close by.
Where our neighborhood feels safe and welcome and everyone is super friendly...people were stopping in their cars to welcome us to the neighborhood while we unloaded our trailer.
Where people wave and say hello to strangers...which is something I've always done, too.
Where they can't get my coffee order right...so I've changed my coffee order.
Where I'm searching for a good radio station...and every time I think I've found one, they play something to completely throw me off.
Where I don't have internet, so I have to go sit at Starbucks and use free Wi-Fi...bummer!
Where it's rained once every day since we've been here...I must have brought it with me.
Where it's humid...not super crazy about that so far.
Where there's no traffic...driving here is a breeze, even during rush hour.
Where everything is within 10 minutes of us...including all my favorite stores and a mall that's getting a Nordstrom soon! Yay!
Where we're getting settled, enjoying each other's company and looking forward to making some amazing new memories.
 
Oh, and we're heading back to WA next weekend for my cousin's wedding, so I don't even have to miss anybody too much...yet.
 
XO

Monday, May 19, 2014

Happy Mother's Day and Happy Birthday to me!

 
What a beautiful week{end} to celebrate Mother's Day and my birthday!
It started on Friday...I met my oldest and dearest friend in Tacoma and we spent the afternoon eating, drinking and shopping...the perfect kick-off to a celebratory weekend!
Saturday was a beautiful day spent at the RAC {an outdoor sports complex in Lacey} for my niece Abbie's softball tournament where we cheered her on, the kids played and we soaked up the sun.
Sunday {Mother's Day} was another gorgeous day! We visited both of my Grandmas, my dad made French Toast for breakfast, my brother-in-law BBQ'd for all the moms and we all celebrated my birthday, too.
The only thing missing was Matt...and I thought about him a lot...wishing he was there.
 
With Grandma Peterson on Mother's Day morning. :)
 
The moms on Mother's Day...my sis-in-law Karena, my sister Cheri, me and my mom. <3
 
 This was the best we could do with me and the kiddos this year. :)
 
Can't even tell you how much I love these four...and how much my heart is going to ache, missing them.
 
Not the best quality coming from my phone, but I like it. :)
 
The morning of my actual birthday, Benjamin took me to Starbucks where we had ourselves a little coffee date. :)
 
 
 
And, finally, on Wednesday, my two best girls and I celebrated our birthdays at The Melting Pot...which was, as always, amazingly delicious and so much fun! Tiff and I have the same birthday, which is great because it's always better to celebrate your birthday with your best friend!
 
 
These girls mean the world to me and I am seriously going to miss our time together.
Lucky for me, one of them is moving to Minnesota not long after we're moving to Wisconsin!! Four hours to see one of my besties, instead of 30?! Yes, please!! :)
 
And, that about wraps it up.
I'm 37 now.
Man, that sounds old.
I don't feel that old.
I still think of myself as young and hip...like I'm still in my 20's!
Then I realize I'm listening to music that came out in the 90's...and my 20 year high school reunion is just one short year away.
That kinda brings ya back to reality...
 
*****
 
29 days until we hit the road!